Psychotherapy and Bipolar Disorder

This is my opinion based on personal experience and is not research based or an opinion that is shared by the majority of people who propose helpful strategies for controlling and maintaining mood stability. I’ve been in cognitive therapy off and on for many years. The therapists I’ve seen have all been licensed and well educated. Each and every one of them had years of practice and were sincerely interested in helping their clients. I enjoyed talking with them and they were very good at helping me problem solve.

The one thing that they were not was able to do was pinpoint that I had bipolar disorder and direct me to a psychiatrist for help. In fact all of them were adamant that I was a “normal neurotic”. I’m not sure exactly what that means but if felt good to be reassured that I was within the normal spectrum.

During my most recent manic episode my therapist assured me that everything that I was doing was good for me including leaving my husband of 30 years, running away from home, etc. Even after the manic episode was under control my therapist refused to admit that I was bipolar or that I’d had a manic episode. She said that I was so self confident and self-assured and she was convinced in her mind that my actions were perfectly rational and in my best interests. Then she watched me crash and saw the other side of the illness. I stopped seeing her soon after that because I was not confident in her ability to help me pinpoint when an episode was starting up.

I learned a very important lesson from all this. If you do decide to participate in therapy whether it is cognitive, cognitive-behavioral, interpersonal & social rhythm therapy, just be sure that the therapist you select has a lot of experience working with clients who have bipolar disorder. Your psychiatrist may be able to recommend therapists with expertise in mood disorders.

I’m not sure any therapist could have kept me from making the mistakes that I made during my last manic episode, but I truly believe that a therapist with experience dealing with bipolar clients could have helped me minimize the damage that I did to myself, my family, and my bank account.